Although pregnancy is not an illness,
you will still have to reconsider your attitude towards your spouse.
You,
of course,
can try to fully understand the various whims of your wife,
but it is better to remember
that the main thing for you now is not to become an additional stress factor for her!
So,
here are some tips from GENESIS:
- Try to perceive your wife's complaints not as whims,
but as a request for support!
- Discuss with your wife in advance where and what will be placed in the baby's room,
какого цвета и что вы купите, пока жена будет в роддоме.
- Help your wife with housework - go to the store, clean the apartment, cook dinner - and your family's well-being will be enviable!
- No "orders" or complaints to your wife about the gender of the future baby. The gender of the child is determined by the father's sperm!
- Do not buy different "treats" for your wife that are harmful to her now.
- Do not smoke in the apartment.
- Decide,
Where, by what route, and who will take the wife to the maternity hospital in case of sudden labor pains.
The "Ambulance" may take her not to the hospital where you planned to give birth,
but according to their own schedule.
- Gather all of the wife's documents in one place: passport,
medical insurance card, and exchange card.
- Prepare things for the wife,
if specific instructions have already been received from the maternity hospital.
- If you refrain from making purchases due to superstition before the baby's birth,
still create a list of necessary items with your wife and decide
what you will buy yourself,
а что подарят родственники или друзья.
- Make sure the apartment is clean and tidy for when your wife and baby arrive.
Pregnancy, and with it all the women's quirks related to carrying a baby, will inevitably end. The more warmth, kindness, patience, and understanding the future father can show during the pregnancy, the more of these positive qualities you will pass on to the baby!
Be proud of her belly and believe, it is harder for HER than for you!
